Criteria of my future husband

I am sitting in the com lab again in this boring wednesday afternoon. So this might be a very boring topic, it's just some personal thoughts that i would like to share in my blog.



I always dream about how my future husband looks like. Old/young? Normal/disabled? Tall/short? Fat/thin? Malaysian/non-malaysian? Chinese/non-chinese? But all these are just physical appearances and what i do really care is the inner beauty, the wavelenght and the character. I always said i dont want to marry someone who smokes / drinks and my mum told me, never try to set a criteria for it cause i might end up falling for someone with all the negative criteria that i have set.



Ideally, i hope he's a musician that can play piano, not only pop songs but also classical. The best part is he can sing while he's playing piano. Trust me, not all pianists can sing and not all singers can play piano. For example, my house has someone that can play piano but has a big room of improvement in singing. Next, he needs to play some kind of sport, preferably basketball. Coz i think basketball players are cool!!! Last, but not least, he has to love his family especially his parents. (Yeah, you are right. He's the one in your mind, Mr Jay Chou!) And i know he's unreachable and a super unrealistic dream that he would be my husband. But there's also a trouble to marry him as all the papporazi and news reporter would target me and i would lose my freedom!!! (Arghh, Xiao Jie, dun think too much....) So Jay Chou is just a dream...

Ok, who's next? There's this hong kong tvb drama series called "The Golden Faith" and the hero in this show was starred by Gallen Loh. And this character was named Ivan and... He's really my dream husband that possibly acievable. He was an adopted child but he cared for his family. He inherited a company that being managed by his father before he passed away. And he took over the company temporary to train his younger brother, Oscar to be more capable of managing the company. But, some how Oscar misunderstood him but Ivan never ever do anything to harm him even though Oscar intent to kill him. On the other hand, Ivan had a blood-related brother and he sacrificed his relationship for him. I give him 100marks for his personality and character as he's really someone that you would only see in a show. But... the thing that i do not like a bout him is... He's a businessman. I always think that businessmen are cunning, selffish and materialistic. Say no to businessman... (But i never know coz i might eventually marry a businessman after being so defensive. Haha!!)

So, stop dreaming of all those all-rounded, 100% perfect man to be my Mr right. Now that i am in the medical world, my partner would be more likely a healthcare worker. Probably a consultant? surgeon? or pharmacist? dietician? or (turun pangkat) charged nurse? nurse? or (the worst thing i have ever think about) a cleaner in the hospital.

Technically speaking, i wish not to marry a doctor as it's going to be very boring if you only mix around with people in the sane career. But practically, it's good as he would be more understading if we work in the similar setting. Nowadays, i have been surounded with anaesthetists as my coordinator is also an anaesthetist. And i think amaesthetist are cool really... especially those who specialised in cardiothoracic surgery.

What would happen if a paediatrician marry an amaethetist? would their child become a paediatrcian anaethetist???

ha, think too much.
i should have used the time i blog on this boring stuff to study but this topic just came into my mind.
i would never know who i would marry.
maybe it's a lady and not a gentleman? (my parents might have heart attack if they see this...)
or maybe i decided not to go into marriage? (second heart attack...)

ok, after all, it's just some thoughts.
dun take it seriously...